Complains
Tuesday, November 21st, 2006Hey, you know what? I think what they’re saying is true..
I’m living ard a bunch of ppl who love to complain. No offense to anyone really. It’s just a general feel.. and it might not even apply to everyone. But I obviously feel it around me.
Never before in my life I hear so many people complaining about so many things.. From small issues like time table, class name list, etc.. to BIG ones like the haze and the recent announcement of GST hike.
I’m not saying that they are bad. I might just be overwhelmed by the culture of the "open" and "critical" society. Yeah. I’m not used to it. From where I come from, most people just don’t say anything, they just make do with whatever there is.
I guess extensive complaining can be very irritating sometimes. Like hey, don’t just complain, suggest something. Oh and i’m not just talking abt complains, it’s like everything, like the way ppl express their opinion and stuff.
I know everyone will say, It’s good to speak up your mind.. but sometimes we might just need to sit back and listen. Listen to what other people have to say. then do not open your mouth first, THINK first! If it’s not the way you think it should be, then THINK AGAIN before you open your mouth. There must be some good points of this new idea, and you can even incorporate your own ideas in it. Or there might be some negative points that you can HELP to ractify. SUGGEST ways to overcome limitations. DO NOT JUST COMPLAIN ABOUT IT. so at the end of the day, the result of this COLLABORATION will be beneficial to everyone.
yeah.. I think I digress a lot.. but haha who cares.. anyway, yeah.. so I guess this is what everyone needs to do:
1. LISTEN
2. THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK
3. THINK AGAIN, EVALUATE YOUR OWN THOUGHTS
4. SUGGEST IMPROVEMENTS, DO NOT MERELY POINT OUT THE NEGATIVE POINTS. (ok maybe there’s a value in pointing out negative points, but I just hate it when people start whining about this and that)
5. COLLABORATE WITH EACH OTHER.